I can feel a wave rising, a movement from deep within. There is a desire for change, and I'm sure that the source is life. It just is no good right now. Yeah there some good things in this life. Like my children, they ways which I see them develop on a daily basis, they are so advancing in there mentality, and do not even need to recognize that for it to be a practice. Advancing seems like a natural tendency amongst humans, but we do not all seem to realize that beyond wiping our own ass, or picking up the dishes after a meal, or not picking up a bee after it stung the first time... What would this society be like if there was never the availability of simple comfort established on premature stages of development, or comfort standard being set at the first 'comfort' to stimulate sensations (which may not be associated with true comfort what so ever!).

It seems to me that as individuals we all seem to attach regret to circumstances which seemed not to 'work out' in our own favor, or desire. But there is sure to be, at least one individual, or many others which are equally effected by the outcome of such circumstances, which are likely to prefer the results just the way they turned out.
With such a perception in mind it would be easy to conceive a balance between loss and gain, simply be refining desire, and redefining 'loss'.